What follows are 25 first gay experiences stories as told by men who identify as straight. To gather their narratives, we asked the Guy Counseling community to come forward and share.įirst names are used to protect their identities. Our hope is to help men who are trying to come to terms with their sexuality. Remember, orientation is not always black or white. “I was 21-years old and spent most of the summer working construction to make extra money for college.

On the job, I got to know one of the guys who was a little older than me. One Friday after work, a group of us stopped by a local watering hole to tie a few on. At the end of the night, Mike invited me back to his place to chill.

I don’t remember all of the details, but we ended up watching a movie and firing up some 420.